Pluto Opposite Ascendant
Pluto opposite the Ascendant makes partnerships a place of deep change. Through those close to you, you meet the themes of power, trust and rebirth.
In the Birth Chart
This opposition means Pluto stands on the Descendant, in the zone of partnership. The theme of power and depth comes to you through other people. You may attract strong, intense, sometimes controlling partners, beside whom life changes to its foundations. Relationships are rarely easy, but they almost always transform. Inside, an argument goes on between the wish to dissolve in a powerful bond and the need to keep your independence. Gradually you understand that the strength you see in others is in you too.
Relationships
You're drawn to deep, intense relationships where there's no room for superficiality. At the same time a struggle for influence, jealousy and crises are possible. It's important not to hand your partner all power over your life, nor to try to control the other completely yourself. A healthy union is built on equality, honesty and a readiness to change together.
Work and Money
Business partnerships can also be powerful and transforming. You know how to work with influential people and in tough negotiations. But it helps to choose partners carefully and record agreements, so you don't end up in a dependent position. Consulting, working with clients in crisis and high-stakes joint projects suit you well.
Strengths
- The ability to build very deep, transforming relationships with those close to you
- A knack for recognizing hidden power games in partnerships and negotiations
- A readiness to change together with a partner and go through crises without running
Pitfalls
- Attraction to controlling people, beside whom freedom of choice is lost
- A power struggle in relationships that wears out both sides
- A tendency to give your strength to others and then feel helpless
How to Work With It
Notice what strength you ascribe to partners, and learn to show it yourself. Agree on boundaries and equality in relationships in advance. If you feel pressure, speak of it directly, without letting resentment pile up. In business, choose partners whose values are close to yours. That way relationships become a place of growth, not a constant fight.