Mars Square Midheaven
Mars square the Midheaven creates friction between your wish to act in your own way and the demands of the outside world, and that friction pushes you to grow.
In the Birth Chart
Inside you there is a constant argument between what you want and what is expected of you. Rules, hierarchy and other people's deadlines irritate you, and authority provokes you to challenge it. There is a lot of energy, but it doesn't always go in the right direction: you can spend your strength fighting the system instead of reaching your goal. Things can be tense at home too, especially if in childhood you had to defend your place. But this aspect forges the character of a fighter. You learn to push through, and it's the resistance of circumstances that makes you stronger and more experienced than others.
Relationships
Work tension easily gets carried home, and loved ones feel your irritation before you realize it. A partner can become the target of built-up anger. It helps to talk honestly about what is happening at work and to agree not to settle family matters when you're on edge. You do well with someone who has strength of their own and isn't frightened by outbursts.
Work and Money
You tend to work in bursts and argue with your bosses, especially if you sense injustice. You shine most where there's competition and obstacles to overcome: crisis management, startups, sports, law. Having your own business often takes away some of the tension, because the boss is no longer outside you.
Strengths
- Resilience and the ability to get up after failures without losing your spark
- The ability to work under pressure and in competition
- The courage to challenge unfair rules and change them for the better for everyone
Pitfalls
- Impulsive decisions to quit after the latest conflict
- Carrying work anger over to your family and those close to you
- Fighting authority for the sake of fighting rather than for a goal
How to Work With It
Separate real injustice from plain irritation: the first is worth challenging, the second is better let out through sport or work with your hands. Give yourself a day before an important career decision. Choose tasks with a clear challenge where your energy is needed. Learn to ask rather than demand, and you'll be surprised how many doors open.